It seems like using a mobility aide such as a walker represents a loss of independence to your father. He does not understand that by using a walker, he will actually increase his independence by being able to walk comfortably again.

I would do your best to get your father to "test drive" the walker. Perhaps you should schedule an appointment with a physiotherapist who can assess your father and talk to him about the benefits of a walker. The physio will be able to show your father how to use the walker and he will be able to see the benefits it will bring to his life and he will hopefully understand that a walker does not mean a loss of independence but in actual fact a tool that will help increase his mobility and his independence.

A lot of seniors are more receptive to hearing advice from doctors and nurses than loved ones so I would be very hopeful about his assessment with a physio.

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